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It’s So Relevant
09-28-2018, 04:42 PM,
It’s So Relevant
I wrote this a couple months ago, before the allegations against Kavanaugh surfaced. There seems to be a growing awareness of a real problem in America, and what seems to be an inner strength in many women finally coming to the surface.


These women are NOT victims. They are warriors, for it takes great courage to stand against powerful men in a man’s world where the conquest of the opposite sex is so deeply ingrained in business and culture that standing against it is a kind of suicide. The woman who comes forward is a kamikaze, sacrificing everything—her reputation, her friends, her career, her family— when it likely won’t change a thing. But she stands anyway, because her heart is broken for the others who have been hurt, and because she doesn’t want the hurt to continue. She stands in the hope of planting a few seeds that will sprout a resounding shout of “THIS IS WRONG!”

She is not coming forward for fame or fortune. Coming forward, as I can testify, brings a hail of accusations against the accuser, and defense for the guilty, especially if the guilty party is wealthy and powerful. Coming forward opens the accuser up to hurt beyond imagining. Friends abandon you. Peers ridicule you. No one seems to believe you. It’s like being a ghost where you scream and scream, but no one hears you. It’s not fun, and we don’t stand up for attention, because the only attention we get is seething scorn. We don’t stand up for fame, because all we get is unrelenting infamy. And we don’t stand up for wealth, because the odds of receiving anything for standing against this kind of wrongdoing is slim to none. We stand for one reason only—because it is RIGHT, and what these men are getting away with is WRONG.

That’s it. That’s the ONLY reason. We don’t want others to experience what we have. We want the bad behavior to stop. Period.

If standing against what this man did earns me only a maelstrom of hate, ridicule, and assassination of my character, so be it. I will not regret it for even a second, because it was the right thing to do. My conscience will not allow me to remain silent, and therefore be complicit, with this man’s actions. Anita Hill said something to the effect that remaining as a silent witness to sexual harassment is just as bad as participating in it.

Think about that. If you have witnessed this, experienced it, or know that it happened, remaining silent is just as wrong as if you had been the one committing the harassment.

And I say this to FF: Intent doesn’t matter. You cannot say, “I didn’t intend to harm my wife and children by sleeping with a searcher. I didn’t intend to show favoritism towards the female searchers that I coerced into an inappropriate relationship with.” Intent means nothing, because YOU DID harm your wife and children, and you did show favoritism, and in the end, you hurt a LOT more than that. You hurt yourself, the women you toyed with, the searchers who admired and adored you, and the very chase itself.

If we want to shed the stigma and latent belief that women will suffer any humiliation or indignity for approval, or money, or fame, or anything, then we all MUST stand against that mindset. We MUST shatter those beliefs and become the strong women and men that will not tolerate dishonorable behavior in the future. Only then will sexual harassment and coercive control become a thing of the past.

I am not a feminist. I like a strong man. I like it when a man steps up to defend my honor. I like it when a man opens a door for me. I love the concept of chivalry. But I am not a doormat. I am not a lump of silly putty to be pressed and molded and played with. And I am certainly not any man’s “prey” to be chased with the goal of conquering me.

Any of you women who have witnessed FF or have knowledge of FF’s “flirtations,” and choose to keep silent, know this— YOU ARE HIS PREY, and he has already conquered you.
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10-03-2018, 09:35 AM, (This post was last modified: 10-04-2018, 07:19 AM by crazyfamily.)
It’s So Relevant
I was planning on holding back my feelings on this situation because, surprisingly, the president was keeping his fool-mouth shut...until yesterday.

Is everyone alright with accepting the word of a man who brags about assaulting women by "grab[bing] them by the pussy," has been proven to have had an affair with a porn star, and a playboy bunny, and proven to have lied about covering up the affairs with payments that he lied knowing about or having anything to do with. This f-bomb, a$$wad stood on AF-One and lied to the face of America, and still expects us to listen to any goddam thing he says?!

Dear Tweety Prez,

What do you suppose Dr. Ford benefits by bringing her charges forward? Because, ALL OF AMERICA and the world knows exactly what you benefited by keeping your affairs with Ms. Daniels and Ms McDougal out of the Pecker tabloids. So, in the absence of a legitimate FBI investigation, every time you open your mouth about your little pet, Kavanaugh, and seek to disparage Dr. Ford, I will become more steadfast in my affirmation that he's as guilty as you are. It is well documented that sexual predators, especially, will maintain their innocence until it is just impossible to do so. Yes, I believe Brett Kavanaugh is, or was, a sexual predator. You guys have a lot in common, I can see why you like him so much.

You have shown total contempt for your fellow country men and women, you have exhibited a total disregard for the laws of the country, you've exhibited total disrespect for the office of the president, you've embarrassed us on the world stage, you're a liar, a thief, and a deviant in the worst manner. Despite all of that, I don't wish any harm upon you. In fact, I hope you live a long, long life rotting your empty black soul in prison.



10-14-2018, 10:08 PM, (This post was last modified: 10-14-2018, 10:16 PM by crazyfamily.)
It’s So Relevant
"It doesn't matter, we won." Well, there you go. It doesn't matter what a woman has to say when you won. The only way to stop this behavior is to get rid of them, unless, of course, you're enjoying this.

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Yesterday, 09:57 AM,
It’s So Relevant
Hey Tweety Prez, it doesn't matter that you're a liar, Elizabeth Warren still won!

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4 hours ago, (This post was last modified: 4 hours ago by ithinkudo2.)
RE: It’s So Relevant
Elizabeth won... Ha, ha.
So funny... Everybody read the news!

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